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作者: Xuan 时间: 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 标题: 其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔

想想當初你見到她是多麼開心，她的一頻一笑都讓你注意，

現在，她跟你在一起了。

女生多半會幫男朋友想，
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怕他太累．怕他錢花太多，所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐，去玩好的，

但是，你有沒有注意過，當她在跟你說不用的時候，其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。
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也許男生會想，我都跟她那麼熟了，有些東西，節日就該免了吧， - U5 n$ L5 W. d/ P: k

但是雖然再熟，雖然你少去這些東西，她不會對你怎樣，
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但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花，在情人節製造點浪漫，聖誕節加一點驚喜， # f6 N0 `5 a1 x9 k; E
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你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意，當她收到你的心意時，是多麼的高興，
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而不是說她已經跟你在一起了，就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她，把一切都省了。 + W2 T, R2 v* e

女生總是不敢開口要求，總是為了男生想好多， 4 p! t! `* F1 I; X% m
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男孩子何不多想一些，多做一點點，你會發現，女孩子好感動，好高興。 * X2 k6 |$ f- h
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既然愛她，就多用一點心在她身上， # Z- l+ _* D0 b- b# O. ~, I

所謂的用心，不是只有把時間花在她身上，
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而是要去探尋她的內心，學著去懂她，

她需要的是什麼，她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼，

只要男生肯用心，將會發現，

她的一舉一動，在在都在表現著她對你的愛，無可取代。
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很多時候很多小事情小動作，都是有涵義在裡面的，

如果你不用心，只有等到後來她離開了你，
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才惋惜，才後悔。 0 O1 K2 S$ A1 |; G

兩個人能相愛，並不容易， 3 U8 e6 F: y; s4 A! [6 c+ J

愛情，並不只是因為需要有一個人疼，

它也是一種成長，一種領悟。
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當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生，   c9 C; o8 z6 c# u, S

一個願意為你付出的女生，
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她的快樂與幸福，就是你的責任。 ( `5 x6 P& r2 a! ^% l

女人的心，男人若不能保護，

就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。 # _  r; I7 r- ^  @9 O/ M

我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。 4 s$ }2 s6 m$ A2 w; y

因為總是等女生開口，才會去做什麼，有時候，這樣的感覺，似乎少了什麼，
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我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。 3 Y) a+ b8 k: A$ m* s( h6 `
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男生，總是在追到女生後，就會沒有在追的時候認真，用心，

總是變的有點自私，一昧的要更多的愛，而卻把對她的愛，一點一滴的減少。

所以，在追到心儀的女生後，是否可以寫一張紙，常常提醒自己， & O+ _$ E7 h+ ~% x

要更認真，更用心，盡力給她最好的，這樣，才不會辜負她， ' o. c. v4 f; k+ t) @! @. A8 |0 t
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畢竟她是選擇了你，你有這個責任跟義務，給她最大的幸福。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-7-24 09:25 PM

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表( U/ ^8 z. ^: D T; ]3 |
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔
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想想當初你見到她是多麼開心，她的一頻一笑都讓你注意， ) Z$ ?1 A9 i3 L( [+ S

) R, l# g- P T% c* K' D現在，她跟你在一起了。 9 E% I7 r' j) i5 C2 e
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女生多半會幫男朋友想，
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怕他太累．怕他錢花太多，所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...

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哥除了赞成以外，还能说什么吗？

作者: Xuan 时间: 2006-7-25 09:16 PM

有
不要做世界上下一个猪头男友！

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-7-25 09:45 PM

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表6 b8 i, ]& X1 S9 V7 r" U2 B
有
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嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”，哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~

作者: akiya-kiko 时间: 2006-8-2 03:58 PM

说得真好!!!1 v) _. J. P2 s$ ~# }/ m
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!. Q0 v! T L* s
有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情0 d C9 Z7 B7 a5 {/ G
希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..# f- e+ G/ M& }% g* }; v
所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)& e2 x8 l. O7 G) i7 O# F5 _
但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛
哈哈

作者: akiya-kiko 时间: 2006-8-2 03:59 PM

Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly2 o# E) x$ u+ q" E, }6 |( D% u
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When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms0 W, o$ k6 w8 r( ?5 B

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On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped 2 r% q, h: `5 C- M9 S! n
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of
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car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and 4 ^" o# S% W8 }5 v6 X- o
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I was a strong and happy bridegroom.
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This was the scene ten years ago.
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The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; # O7 u# B" W3 o8 v1 O* t
I
went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were4 O/ G6 g2 e# ?8 d' @# u- I
steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a ( a, P: y) m: P9 Q
civil. [/ P5 q2 V+ E" i  L1 Q
servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the 3 _, t" Y$ r% y, y5 y6 U
same
time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.) I' s' k* l. c  N: g: l

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was
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likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.
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Dew came into my life.6 ?* ]) \) r' U: V( e. Y$ u

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This
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apartment I bought for her.
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Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her ( x( [" E& Y; l8 ^. z0 y
words
suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife 3 [+ Z- h; c9 k" h# X; s/ q: @" m
said,( @  [2 F0 \& Y. k
Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
wife.. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, * q- i* D/ m  v$ w, d4 k& R
O.K.?
I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy,
because
I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of! x7 q) S: y& e, y, {$ O0 D
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something- h2 e# |6 Z8 z. H7 A& I
impossible to me.
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However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No 6 ^8 A8 Y+ C9 k( K7 F
matter how
mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.
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Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing 0 E( K& M, K- x8 d% V: n7 W5 i
dinner., n( N) p! s! [( Z  v* w0 ^
I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we : |3 g& m6 |& ]0 K3 ]/ c: I
watched8 R( b/ b) \1 ~( |3 f+ m& S( e1 ~1 X
TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's
body.
This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce,
what
will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.
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she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I
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imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.
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When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all ' `& |' l: }3 M" S
the
staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide
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while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently , p$ Z* w1 s, b: Z8 i$ k# U% f7 {0 O
smiled at
my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.5 a/ A. V6 J& A0 S: D0 G) P. M2 H
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Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live9 u% l; b' n% o( p
together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.. y6 r, \" J' R0 J
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something
to: ?5 c  |4 I* ^& @1 C
tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the
hurt in
her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
her
know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic
calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
why?
I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
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She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
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to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give
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satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.
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With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
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she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She
glanced
at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The
woman who7 B' b9 I, Q/ u$ J& u0 A
had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But
I
could not take back what I had said.
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Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected ; P+ }( M4 z/ C- z: ?7 M% E
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see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
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had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.
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Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw 7 G4 i# U+ f6 n$ A
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writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I
found
she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from   U# ?& P# I, u
me, but
I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the. t4 d6 Q3 y3 i4 k1 e+ V8 U
month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was
simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she
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She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do
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still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This) ~9 p" p7 b  s$ t& K7 h
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I
nodded
and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I   n# _9 ^1 L9 S; T9 q
have
a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when
we
divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from ; }, K# Q1 l) n9 D) E3 C, [$ H
the
bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished ! e( F) {% Q. F: ]2 X- w* Q
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end her marriage romantically.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and3 D$ l2 f4 x: l
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face " V- u4 k! W' K
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result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me * k' G; y# m' y
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uncomfortable.
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention ( I7 t9 w  \/ N; I( Z2 {  c
was
explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when
I
carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son 3 }* H2 v: i/ u7 I2 V$ }" m6 E
clapped
behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a ; @+ T+ u2 X+ n. T# Z& ?
sense" [* {; f. O3 i) ~% n: `
of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I
walked
over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said
softly,
Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat% \5 o& f' {9 E4 Q+ K
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I
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to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. ! \- H# w: F3 q4 m! y+ H9 v7 m& }
I
realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a 3 }1 F( x3 ^+ \. Y
long
time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles
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her face.
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On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being2 e6 N9 e5 {0 i5 ]
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On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were 1 a: K  _2 e* O' b
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an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
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On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, 2 `+ U: `4 M! y% u
where
she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I 5 |! x$ y' n( l' F+ @( R6 P& C, n0 G/ k
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The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.2 |, O+ e$ Q2 V! V+ ?
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I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She
was
picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a
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but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
was
thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
I
knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a + w7 C% g% g  b9 N
sense
of pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He 2 {& a! F& N$ i; H7 m- _
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him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential - a: [% }' p. \& O- P
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his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I' l; O. t% N) `* n' a
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
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room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. + w9 t% V; Q6 o- L, F9 b
I
held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her * c2 G3 \2 H  y- l
much
lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. ; P7 I+ O  `1 k& H! V8 M
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son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in
your
arms until we are old.- @0 v& k+ F, ~% B: T/ v
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I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
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I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid
any
delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened
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door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.2 c5 j% O4 y7 v! A+ Z

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no6 @6 O- R) r. q- u( Q4 x
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
can
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring
probably
because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
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love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
into the
home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am
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So I have to say sorry to you.0 G. f# H. P8 e' s

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then $ S8 d4 Q: o; [8 n- v5 i
slammed the) k' W! w& F. Z3 Z/ P3 i( E
door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my
wife
which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the . c) a3 r: c# C5 Q* h1 N
card. I+ h$ g; `, W3 I' h9 L( W6 q
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

作者: 凌白麒 时间: 2006-10-29 07:09 AM

好多英文字。。。XD% f5 t/ P+ s) p5 |1 `4 J
很懒惰去看。。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-10-29 05:21 PM

引用:

原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表
% S p" d4 j. _1 r好多英文字。。。XD; t: E& F6 N# ^, t! ?* P
很懒惰去看。。

基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了，妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱，过后丈夫就愧疚啦....（我缩到超短了...）

作者: Daidai 时间: 2006-10-30 06:40 PM

女生花心啦！8 [' F$ W# h& e/ |0 h$ d# P9 a# r
竟然执著于两个男生之中
我已经放弃她了

作者: SilverJun 时间: 2007-2-20 10:47 AM

不一定每个女生都那样的

作者: haha 时间: 2007-10-2 12:12 AM

the story is so sweet..( K+ @( ~# ]# _- u
i mean the English one...% `& e" Z0 `/ i# g( I
so touching..

作者: misterhai 时间: 2007-10-2 12:29 AM

and touchy

作者: yingxi 时间: 2007-10-5 08:12 PM

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愛情，並不只是因為需要有一個人疼，' T3 \$ K( @2 y# W
它也是一種成長，一種領悟。. Z+ Q& P& O# U3 u# [9 [$ C

我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长，一种领悟。& D$ ` K& |; d1 [1 S
每一次爱情结束，都让我觉得，我的视野更宽阔了。
对人对爱情，我有更多包容的能力了。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2007-10-6 10:06 PM

得到与付出之间，我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗？但是，至少我是幸福的。

作者: lizhizhen0 时间: 2009-6-2 11:12 AM

我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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