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其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔6 C% x  |6 [, \) n7 K& o
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想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意, + _& E1 Y. x3 v& l
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現在,她跟你在一起了。 " ~9 ?1 z' h" H7 q; g5 a/ l

$ O2 N6 j* W0 u/ z5 q女生多半會幫男朋友想,
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7 l2 B1 d4 O4 R5 U' A3 X! t怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐,去玩好的, + \" s" a6 P9 a0 J9 i: S( ~

* F* c1 h$ C0 c& l但是,你有沒有注意過,當她在跟你說不用的時候,其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。
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也許男生會想,我都跟她那麼熟了,有些東西,節日就該免了吧,
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/ y5 m2 h+ B5 h' t0 n但是雖然再熟,雖然你少去這些東西,她不會對你怎樣,
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1 n5 I1 G3 I  n4 V2 x5 p4 w& z但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花,在情人節製造點浪漫,聖誕節加一點驚喜,
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你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意,當她收到你的心意時,是多麼的高興,
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而不是說她已經跟你在一起了,就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她,把一切都省了。
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女生總是不敢開口要求,總是為了男生想好多, ! z5 X: w; J: u( ^- W

( R# u9 `# x7 X. B* o6 \男孩子何不多想一些,多做一點點,你會發現,女孩子好感動,好高興。 4 I; m: M$ C, k( k, e
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既然愛她,就多用一點心在她身上, # Z: ~* ?1 w5 h) E7 v. s

5 w0 b/ v# P4 g+ ?0 ^所謂的用心,不是只有把時間花在她身上, : M! P: u/ o: j# Y1 _
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而是要去探尋她的內心,學著去懂她,
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她需要的是什麼,她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼, ; I( J+ Q# Z( {6 k5 P% ^( _
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只要男生肯用心,將會發現, . B) l, D3 V* v" R! ^$ m$ f
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她的一舉一動,在在都在表現著她對你的愛,無可取代。
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' m' L) _5 @& _$ U! c; Q& `很多時候很多小事情小動作,都是有涵義在裡面的,
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如果你不用心,只有等到後來她離開了你,   _4 X. D3 V7 q; J
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才惋惜,才後悔。 / ^, k/ S. Z  \. `# y  x; A. h) h

+ a: n1 {" F* Z' ^$ r兩個人能相愛,並不容易,
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# S/ i$ S! X" n2 O3 w# Z& z( ^愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
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它也是一種成長,一種領悟。
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+ S. W! l0 n6 l1 `. ~3 W當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生, ; n+ S: ]0 X7 u* n) K3 e
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一個願意為你付出的女生,
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# ^# z9 k( r# d5 t1 K9 G( v她的快樂與幸福,就是你的責任。 $ f3 o0 i6 e. k8 x* M6 q; [( ~

+ E' Y/ S: l. k, z- M( F' D女人的心,男人若不能保護,
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就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。 - `2 X! s! X) r+ ?! t6 _
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我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。 ! E% t5 D. a9 P! n$ W* s5 ]

- v( m4 o+ e0 X4 T" a1 \: l因為總是等女生開口,才會去做什麼,有時候,這樣的感覺,似乎少了什麼, ! R: N1 }% G$ p5 n7 v. G

5 {) J! W4 l9 X' I% }我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。
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男生,總是在追到女生後,就會沒有在追的時候認真,用心, 4 P2 D1 \6 L/ }/ |% n: n4 g7 R; |; N5 f

& ~1 F5 G2 L& n4 g總是變的有點自私,一昧的要更多的愛,而卻把對她的愛,一點一滴的減少。 - b2 Y' u' J. L; _" K
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所以,在追到心儀的女生後,是否可以寫一張紙,常常提醒自己, * D' o; O2 K& c& {8 ^8 g' W' y

! Q& u& A! j2 D6 i. z要更認真,更用心,盡力給她最好的,這樣,才不會辜負她,
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畢竟她是選擇了你,你有這個責任跟義務,給她最大的幸福。

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表1 V" t3 {( p4 y& a" K
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔: A" _( n4 ]/ i7 P* t& \
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想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意,
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現在,她跟你在一起了。
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  P% S, `: T% n8 B4 p( H, W: }7 Z, W女生多半會幫男朋友想, 1 c* C2 m: n0 N0 b. a
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...
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哥除了赞成以外,还能说什么吗?
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表5 K' U  X2 D7 c& I. ]

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嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”,哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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说得真好!!!! x% N* a4 I6 `9 a. q; q
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!' }, X1 g" i8 ^
有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情. Z, z4 y; K9 _6 v+ p# B; Z
希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧5 F: z+ A  y  N5 ]; G6 k/ y+ `8 n
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..
- M8 p! R6 y( O所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)1 x# W* o$ Y& e/ }; |# J5 K
但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛1 [$ L# q2 B2 O( C
哈哈

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Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly
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When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms0 T+ R) r) }) T* p# s" r

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, q6 {% a. ]# U5 ?) x% T7 xOn my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of
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car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and 6 u+ K) c# ~4 |* {- D  O4 k* n6 X
shy..
/ z. R5 }/ @2 d! b  o" EI was a strong and happy bridegroom.
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This was the scene ten years ago.2 t: p7 D  B" k# k: H( W2 c1 H
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The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid;
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went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were
% }2 W9 g, P' I6 e& e( D/ I3 Usteadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a * h: ^# X7 v: h7 S5 \+ p5 u  R
civil
5 ^" f/ t8 n( _servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the
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time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.
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Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was 3 o6 A  d  G( j" y
more
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Dew came into my life.9 M! J: b9 r5 A' B# C
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It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from! A2 G9 a$ [! z% F3 X
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This
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' p  K& X8 y" m$ Q$ S! V5 oDew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her
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suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife 5 B+ w, F2 _- j/ Y" X$ n
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Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.
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Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
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I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture,
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I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, 0 |) Q) }  z3 o6 e. x8 `# w9 [
because
/ E& l4 q) ?8 f# i5 M8 Q( S9 J7 SI had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of
1 T- R2 w! q" s$ p9 B6 u$ Rdivorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something
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2 G1 N. Z# y* t8 j4 eHowever, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No   F& }7 q* D) o2 a9 K
matter how
( E) P( g! z3 ^$ X8 S& @mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.& y9 @5 ^' D% {

" ?& }$ Q8 q6 [! CHonestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing 3 Y5 a5 y* @# S, W
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I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
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TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's " w0 p! g" l; o% L
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This was the means of my entertainment./ I) h6 m4 {1 g1 X1 K5 n
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One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, * R5 L- C/ R/ z9 y8 f. p
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will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. # f' d2 X% |1 j7 I, [4 G% S  b. ~
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she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I * K$ s  U  s' z( |
couldn't
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3 v3 v% K4 f$ |* EWhen my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all
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1 e4 o* s7 K* fstaff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide
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while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently ; D4 M/ ?! x. {' F- E' Y0 b1 q
smiled at
; i" n/ G1 o0 f0 k4 rmy subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.# c& D. ~+ q! |1 r1 ^' N  L5 h

7 l# u& T  X  z  `+ [7 }Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live
7 Y5 K1 M3 o. Q5 h, X5 ~3 [together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something 3 J. @7 o& z# X8 \3 s- o1 {
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tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the
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know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic
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- x& N; U" G% |! g6 P: PShe didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
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I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her 7 \4 k7 R# T4 ^1 G& F2 b
angry..
9 c. n4 q5 Z' k% ~# f5 P" b# u8 `She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!' R4 u. ?( J% p; _
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
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to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give # |9 b4 }8 \/ X) b2 L8 R* y# w; z7 v
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satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.
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5 ~% Q/ w3 Z6 g7 A- k3 p; I! i$ aWith a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
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woman who
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could not take back what I had said.5 J5 D; f# Y7 o7 g

6 M* W0 {$ u" ~! O6 z. vFinally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected ) v; }) m- |$ a! r! I
to
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had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.
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& f( H' z% _$ D$ V/ |# KLate that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw 1 M: A7 P& E# N/ M- d2 I
her
1 |5 t& h1 @/ l. gwriting something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I
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She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from
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I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the
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$ g9 |) @% ^- G4 J8 MShe passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do ! `* S+ p  m3 }. L+ }7 ~- K9 c
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still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This  i  d; M; |; E
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I ! M! e) X1 F' y7 C+ d" H
nodded1 a, R* c6 C2 I1 a/ e
and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I
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divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from
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end her marriage romantically.
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1 R# f/ T0 ?/ S/ [/ wthought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face . I- K2 A1 y9 ?3 j, q$ \; y8 q2 W) A
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result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention
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explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when * k( O  x$ X0 v- w! k# Z
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carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son , K+ z5 Z) [( Q* I! \  B) d
clapped
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over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said 1 N" r( k' Q" f3 C4 `
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Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat
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) I% k7 i, ~( ?; @5 e! JOn the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my: v4 A! e7 n9 F7 r  u. L; M
chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
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realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a 5 R! |. c: n: S
long
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On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
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On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
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' L9 M5 p5 U; g( San intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
% G1 @$ s' w  l4 c2 M# Cvisualization of Dew became vague.7 m- Z! p/ s3 V6 ^; p

+ @1 r: H' {0 T; AOn the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, 5 T6 s! ~' C! A+ ^2 F$ s
where
/ n, k9 O; c" V8 {4 {she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
3 J; s5 Y9 Z, n( r3 r6 C6 K+ Rnodded.4 y7 O( D" }! `3 E: u" b& {
The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.
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stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She
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picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a ' m# J1 Q) V# h5 P
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but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
" T4 g6 {4 t. }$ |grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
" y+ M0 x# b# |2 \, p2 wwas
; y  }" A2 X+ C. rthinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. ; `; U3 b7 H& ^2 }) Z
I
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sense  i0 J9 E  g6 x
of pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.
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5 O1 N9 N/ J/ VOur son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He   O* Y' z$ [( V' y+ P, _. y
said. To) Q  D5 e2 y4 R
him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential " q9 @! U/ V0 o8 v  ]% }9 }" F
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his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I" q) w7 Y. ~8 e) j4 r: r8 a
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last8 O5 D8 _/ j1 o' ?3 \# m
minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
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6 Z; D4 F9 y2 o/ l& ^( N' xroom, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.
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" y# j9 v( l3 _% f# A4 u- A4 b: `. lheld her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her & i8 g* n8 m8 |; a; k2 u4 Y4 u
much5 i+ L) ?$ a% i7 S' @4 w
lighter weight made me sad.5 I( ~$ v- B4 C3 L6 Z! {
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On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. " R1 ~, k! B! M# ~0 o1 \. r
Our
/ }* h' e/ F8 C8 V$ s6 O8 Yson had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in
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arms until we are old.
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I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
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I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid
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9 n4 y( q- U7 w3 e4 J, Ndelay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened / s- t0 b4 e- T2 K8 r
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door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious." W2 R4 m0 S6 A3 y3 o
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She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no' E9 ]$ N4 Q6 n  ~% K
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I ) T. Z, U0 Y6 ]& b' E, ]
can2 n) G1 q# r9 u+ f- K
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring
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because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
9 O- q, k3 M1 D2 b& y1 t/ Edidn't
4 R/ ~9 K( m, _0 nlove each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her ) o( h' A% E* c, B4 J- Z
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home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am $ U, r3 K* ~6 x8 ?
old.9 D) f/ O3 z! Q' |3 B8 p5 j
So I have to say sorry to you.5 J4 m( V) |% o% Z/ q- H
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Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then 0 C) z# g9 G% G7 L2 b
slammed the
  r* B3 U0 Q2 Vdoor and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.2 F: L( ]2 `6 _4 y, v
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When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my
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which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the ; x! _2 n7 `$ ?) p
card. I' t- L2 W( b# v  z8 y1 m2 v
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

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好多英文字。。。XD5 K  _( v( h* s) L8 E- Q
很懒惰去看。。
我の部落格》  有急事按它找我【

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表
, ^/ m: X! K" ^4 |! H9 E好多英文字。。。XD8 u9 ?5 B8 |+ T5 y5 l8 {
很懒惰去看。。
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* e1 z7 O( W# X' `基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了,妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱,过后丈夫就愧疚啦....(我缩到超短了...)
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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女生花心啦!3 u0 Z: g/ b+ Z" E9 j0 [4 U( T% A
竟然执著于两个男生之中5 O1 O7 I( q4 e! f* E
我已经放弃她了
No bOdY KnoW
wHo i ReaLLy aM
i nEveR FeLt tiS EmptY beFore
If i WaNNa nEEd sUmboDy coME aLong
whO wannA coMe FroM mE aNd keeP me STRONG

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不一定每个女生都那样的
试着忘了过去~
开始新的生活...

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the story is so sweet..# j. k- u, }2 ]4 |% }9 o8 R
i mean the English one...
9 f' z; F. Z3 yso touching..


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and touchy

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愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
* ]4 g4 c9 n, U% g它也是一種成長,一種領悟。
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1 `2 I+ s; D  D8 a8 h; x我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长,一种领悟。
' B- M2 P: |* _! f( P5 X% T每一次爱情结束,都让我觉得,我的视野更宽阔了。7 y* C: A( Q! u
对人对爱情,我有更多包容的能力了。
我没有雪白的翅膀,所以我不是天使。

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得到与付出之间,我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗?但是,至少我是幸福的。
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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