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其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔
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1 |+ F7 @7 W6 n. i- @  i, \想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意,
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1 l8 N  W( {. x2 G現在,她跟你在一起了。
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女生多半會幫男朋友想,
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐,去玩好的,
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' c" C7 I1 D8 e9 n5 R% N2 V但是,你有沒有注意過,當她在跟你說不用的時候,其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。
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也許男生會想,我都跟她那麼熟了,有些東西,節日就該免了吧,
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但是雖然再熟,雖然你少去這些東西,她不會對你怎樣,
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但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花,在情人節製造點浪漫,聖誕節加一點驚喜, + g  e) }+ v8 D
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你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意,當她收到你的心意時,是多麼的高興, ! A7 E  Z1 K+ m( @2 B! f

5 W8 ]) x  D- |( r而不是說她已經跟你在一起了,就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她,把一切都省了。
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女生總是不敢開口要求,總是為了男生想好多, : S' B$ }: c  m, {& u1 K7 X
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男孩子何不多想一些,多做一點點,你會發現,女孩子好感動,好高興。
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既然愛她,就多用一點心在她身上,
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所謂的用心,不是只有把時間花在她身上, ( N9 j3 j* u8 @' d9 |" q

* f( W2 x/ Z( S9 `/ V而是要去探尋她的內心,學著去懂她, 9 j" r0 S; \! x. y& @. {
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她需要的是什麼,她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼,
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只要男生肯用心,將會發現, 0 {3 k% h! p+ l) X  @9 r
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她的一舉一動,在在都在表現著她對你的愛,無可取代。
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很多時候很多小事情小動作,都是有涵義在裡面的,
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如果你不用心,只有等到後來她離開了你, + T) I/ ?; D. V
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才惋惜,才後悔。 3 D( M8 G0 ?; H$ m' G

+ d& ]5 i/ h/ \兩個人能相愛,並不容易, 6 ?4 E/ {, Q# z; H$ y5 u/ O3 w

$ c- y% r6 A% J  K愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
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" k8 G4 {6 n$ E6 j( k: Q: {它也是一種成長,一種領悟。
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* y0 L9 Q. X+ Y當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生, # p7 _9 a  V5 c! M# N' ]

/ q+ L- E( P1 m( {, |9 V一個願意為你付出的女生,
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2 k9 B& \2 D4 U+ l/ Z) E她的快樂與幸福,就是你的責任。 1 z4 x( e+ [! F8 Q

% s0 w( p6 N# v, s! [" }女人的心,男人若不能保護, % S; E4 k/ S  C- l
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就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。 & L2 i( H2 n% G' {
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我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。 4 x8 c9 \% O4 ~' z; e7 u

0 |7 h0 c' e& S! ]: ^1 i因為總是等女生開口,才會去做什麼,有時候,這樣的感覺,似乎少了什麼,
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' r5 C- Q1 Z- }1 S% l: X# [我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。 2 y/ N" R# Q$ I+ D

0 @# l4 E8 B1 k9 L/ c; t( r男生,總是在追到女生後,就會沒有在追的時候認真,用心, 0 T1 X) z5 v, v' Y
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總是變的有點自私,一昧的要更多的愛,而卻把對她的愛,一點一滴的減少。
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所以,在追到心儀的女生後,是否可以寫一張紙,常常提醒自己,
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6 d# W4 t7 l3 @' {9 M要更認真,更用心,盡力給她最好的,這樣,才不會辜負她, ' J# X/ n3 s4 Z' y1 f/ P( j
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畢竟她是選擇了你,你有這個責任跟義務,給她最大的幸福。

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表0 M9 ]5 e5 y7 Z, A
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔# S9 I/ X$ j! w2 T( {

* N7 \4 C' t9 R$ B想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意, & Q3 ]5 O% [. `5 ?9 l
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現在,她跟你在一起了。 ! x" ]; J- E8 x5 ~/ p/ J( q
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女生多半會幫男朋友想,
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...
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5 v: t- K$ P: {* ?8 n哥除了赞成以外,还能说什么吗?
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表
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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!
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嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”,哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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说得真好!!!3 X9 _2 Z5 s2 x: O( p/ u: \
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!3 m! d7 `" L5 j4 b1 G3 l  u' w! V
有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情
3 p$ X; r5 k* R7 U, `1 E5 q希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧/ b3 k& N) z$ y1 G6 ~
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..1 n- [6 Q8 E1 `5 j7 J* M- X7 w
所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)
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Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly
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0 x* H7 c+ V! Z4 iWhen You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms: f3 l% g: q# E' \; A

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On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped + T# V% O' A0 N! i$ j9 X
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of   f0 d% D% Y1 k2 n) J+ ~$ m
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car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and ' _5 a( E' f1 T; A' I
shy..
$ @8 k! z$ N4 z' w7 MI was a strong and happy bridegroom.
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This was the scene ten years ago.$ U. E& M  P' j3 Z/ a2 E! |! r' z3 o

7 w. g* x, B2 x7 R5 ]The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid;
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, S, o5 w" a3 P' K4 r5 H9 Fwent into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were
2 C2 E$ c- Q% P; rsteadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a
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servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the
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time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.2 N. i* J2 ^: n7 l; q

0 V6 I( f+ S4 J! |) N+ |8 B2 kOur marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was 4 y- }% h; T# t- a2 ~0 z
more
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/ I/ E- r' z7 y: G) b/ ~Dew came into my life., R5 u, {6 e: {4 a

' X, S7 _' k- j1 T  f0 mIt was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from2 x8 d. Y3 X: z7 C: r4 S" m' H5 n
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This ! X% H, J- b: A. w
was the
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' q9 z' J" G! e/ X$ LDew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her 7 T* l7 ?2 g/ e( s8 T
words
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said,
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3 n! j' y( ?4 {Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
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% P& p- F( ?% o" I- u3 JI moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture,
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. @5 b, ?. @, E$ WI've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy,
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I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of% t: {9 m) e. U  B7 }
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something
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  L  U, l4 j' g/ j0 m7 a5 `However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No 1 z/ I; E. C0 U# ?! j
matter how
! }) [# p( _8 K; Fmildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.
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Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing + L* U, g, _# w
dinner.
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TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's 6 t  o" |1 I# j6 O; P& z
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This was the means of my entertainment., L6 S; z. I, V0 y" I: w, {
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One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce,
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will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.
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- G$ d! r' g9 H$ n) I/ A) vshe believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I ' ^% R1 Y1 z0 Z
couldn't
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) g( l: M6 G% v' h4 H7 U( }When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all
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staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide $ H* z- `# {: E3 Q
something
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my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.- J! z9 N$ c! R, m
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Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live# a% E$ D$ a5 k4 C) X7 v
together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.3 d% e: y' o/ K2 \

  d! b( M- P* l& }2 A/ vWhen my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something
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tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the 2 P3 ]- h  D& x- R( E1 o8 d1 d
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her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let 5 {( L7 @3 ^5 E/ E/ i
her
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calmly.
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! W$ i: w' B& C0 b4 W+ u0 tShe didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, 1 s* A5 U" n1 i: w
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I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
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% T( a8 ^& A3 Q3 r5 X' EShe threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she ' f# q4 K1 O  Y/ T
wanted
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With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated   X+ @* W2 a) G  M, Y
that
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at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The 1 j2 @1 n. ]4 l1 N6 M$ M
woman who
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I
  k4 [* Z; Q& W' x  L; Ycould not take back what I had said.
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" N3 R$ T; b/ n, e; |1 }% `  ]Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected 1 h! |3 d7 p  B& L/ Q2 l9 w) E
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see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
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had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.; Q- ^" Z- p; T5 r3 s. n- @& p

+ I# D4 @* L) c! u1 i+ FLate that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw
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$ H: {* |0 b- e' |( i' ^writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I
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! J6 S% f+ ~" q7 U: r4 w' y- TShe brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from
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month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was
+ \3 r/ u- F$ D4 |# B) hsimple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she
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& a, z& P( M' n* z, OShe passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do - J$ F: D3 f( p" N5 F% O2 n# r
you
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question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I
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and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I
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a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when 8 Z/ ?" u0 f9 N- I+ O
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divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from
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bedroom to the door every morning.
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I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished & y; e# e1 t  U
to
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- P$ c1 b0 Z' \0 w6 j3 ~I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and5 C( V3 P$ J; b& [! X( v
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face
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result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me 2 K9 ?! b% U" V+ [( p
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uncomfortable.
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention
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explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when 9 o6 k8 ^. }& Y% v8 Q1 u! l8 l: [8 f
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carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son 6 G% ^/ a4 Y2 T2 S" Q7 U* l
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behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a * |( T8 o6 o* H/ i0 v/ |
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of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I . G" @0 f0 I7 r; l5 z
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over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said $ H6 W; g, h: h& h4 I
softly,
# ]9 Z; z! P9 l( M# p& T2 s4 ^Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat( n# \3 u: a# {2 X
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I ; m$ O2 J* o( t# m- T) U  c
drove
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On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
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long
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On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
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) R4 W3 }5 q! }5 k  fOn the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were 5 z- V4 ?' ]; F: e7 P2 Q
still
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visualization of Dew became vague.
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On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as,
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she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
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! N# h/ m! b- [5 ~" e2 cThe sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.
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' U7 W! A% S. b( l# i  E( ^( a2 CI felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
1 |/ O9 r( q% N5 {stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She
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picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a ) t* X/ g+ @% Q: j* ^* c, Y
few
5 [) T6 y2 U2 E9 E, e, g6 q) a: Rbut could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
; ~0 ~  v# w6 G  Agrown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
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thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
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knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a ' h0 ?  @5 [1 E- n
sense
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- ]/ m! v# y2 \5 G4 z. xOur son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He 9 t+ z6 Y2 Y7 }6 c! V
said. To
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part of4 g3 ^( j% b7 Q; F7 @
his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
1 K. w7 B: I; xturned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
: Y- Y0 J+ A; z3 `5 Pminute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
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room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.   D* L. N+ `/ g. a, [- s
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held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her
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lighter weight made me sad.
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On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. : N* L2 r, }, Z. ]) s* [1 n
Our
" ?/ N# A6 N! i5 dson had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in
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I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
; a& J+ K- t* |1 C+ Tlacked intimacy.
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* s8 h% |2 m& B3 I+ sI jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid 1 x. k3 y7 ^2 J
any
3 ^" ~; n3 P. ydelay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened 1 Y/ E6 `# x( O4 F  R6 N" F
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door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.
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She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no& X( o' r3 a5 s' q
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I ) ?2 C0 d5 G5 q# }9 i2 J
can
* A% _; ]$ a0 [, U  Z6 s2 monly say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring
: S8 [) ~) R$ u1 G$ Q( N  \/ n  |/ Dprobably
+ E: ^' W# v9 l6 Hbecause she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
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* p1 l8 T. I: r6 ]# t5 `love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
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home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am
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- X) D0 p; l; J6 p) I1 y) oSo I have to say sorry to you.
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, {8 x) f/ W3 i- D' wDew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then " ]3 V& o) _4 Z( V* p
slammed the
' E; x) ~4 W: g& _) wdoor and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.
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6 Z7 X$ ]: `, D% r4 V- r4 |When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my
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% _1 t# S% H# ~' M5 k# c4 A9 swhich was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the % E/ G8 B/ S9 Y. s3 t
card. I) F& O, j2 I" W$ d& w) s8 \; B/ Y, B
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

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好多英文字。。。XD+ R! y  [. }* c9 v
很懒惰去看。。
我の部落格》  有急事按它找我【

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表
% p; q5 E! {) l1 S好多英文字。。。XD
, X8 Q2 Y% c8 A+ ?& x4 Y很懒惰去看。。
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基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了,妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱,过后丈夫就愧疚啦....(我缩到超短了...)
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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女生花心啦!% x9 ?' }) N" U& Q3 r
竟然执著于两个男生之中2 @- H2 h# S! l" O
我已经放弃她了
No bOdY KnoW
wHo i ReaLLy aM
i nEveR FeLt tiS EmptY beFore
If i WaNNa nEEd sUmboDy coME aLong
whO wannA coMe FroM mE aNd keeP me STRONG

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不一定每个女生都那样的
试着忘了过去~
开始新的生活...

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the story is so sweet..4 W- E$ z7 ?- U4 K
i mean the English one...6 A1 |1 e' n( f: v" `6 L
so touching..


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and touchy

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5 X: `0 U: k7 B5 v# B愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,; O+ T6 s4 \5 T# D# Z- H: d9 m
它也是一種成長,一種領悟。- o9 z* B0 K# b- Z  @- m
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我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长,一种领悟。9 @5 D+ q. P* a8 G- n2 i
每一次爱情结束,都让我觉得,我的视野更宽阔了。
: P/ A" b  c, k% P5 p+ a对人对爱情,我有更多包容的能力了。
我没有雪白的翅膀,所以我不是天使。

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得到与付出之间,我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗?但是,至少我是幸福的。
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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http://www.word-time.com

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