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其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔+ y" G- M# n$ @7 k5 W% _6 T, Z' X! x

6 i! a3 L  k  A4 a8 J. {想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意,
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6 C, T. [+ K. N$ P& z$ L現在,她跟你在一起了。
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女生多半會幫男朋友想, 8 @7 b2 e/ B; ]# N2 F1 t

. C; {' d# C' {( L1 b8 e怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐,去玩好的, 3 s. R: s. |9 Y5 c* S. B
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但是,你有沒有注意過,當她在跟你說不用的時候,其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。 4 E/ ], I( A4 B; v+ L
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也許男生會想,我都跟她那麼熟了,有些東西,節日就該免了吧,
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* V4 k4 l$ [: m. j! x) d6 m6 i但是雖然再熟,雖然你少去這些東西,她不會對你怎樣, : F. g/ H' R6 \# m7 I/ d

" \( R- o  b6 I1 F0 _但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花,在情人節製造點浪漫,聖誕節加一點驚喜,
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% g& k2 B$ a* E" G/ N* D你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意,當她收到你的心意時,是多麼的高興,
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而不是說她已經跟你在一起了,就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她,把一切都省了。
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女生總是不敢開口要求,總是為了男生想好多,
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; R- M# T) D) Z5 `7 q男孩子何不多想一些,多做一點點,你會發現,女孩子好感動,好高興。 : p8 Y1 m4 I  i- l$ W4 k2 R
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既然愛她,就多用一點心在她身上,
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% v4 m  F% {8 Q4 E4 y, T  J所謂的用心,不是只有把時間花在她身上, & w8 a" A0 v$ h5 r: ~2 D$ Z& v

' p: v6 K; M4 ^! X4 t' H而是要去探尋她的內心,學著去懂她,
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2 e. u8 N6 l' r6 \( N& b她需要的是什麼,她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼, 9 {. e/ t( ~- v  v& z

+ m4 [8 M6 f9 b$ L2 |/ q只要男生肯用心,將會發現,
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她的一舉一動,在在都在表現著她對你的愛,無可取代。 7 j( u# v2 q$ B2 s: n

9 L0 A1 O/ j* \$ X( I* U很多時候很多小事情小動作,都是有涵義在裡面的, $ c& F8 _" o; T: P- _* g

3 w1 c% l9 J- e  w1 Z* y3 C/ T如果你不用心,只有等到後來她離開了你, ' ]; h. F7 f2 l( M3 M& \, R
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才惋惜,才後悔。 3 b2 u9 |8 C. h! {0 ^3 D) f
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兩個人能相愛,並不容易,
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愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
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它也是一種成長,一種領悟。 2 V1 D4 W$ q) J. p) @; p$ O
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當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生,
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一個願意為你付出的女生,
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她的快樂與幸福,就是你的責任。 6 p+ W" R' T6 G: u
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女人的心,男人若不能保護, ( E  A4 [8 V4 W& J0 i

2 S  d6 x! E: v3 C8 G8 N; r就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。
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我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。 ! v" i* X. h: g1 W1 z

& w% U- k5 z, ]( D" Z4 C因為總是等女生開口,才會去做什麼,有時候,這樣的感覺,似乎少了什麼,
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我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。 1 Y) x. A+ n8 N4 R
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男生,總是在追到女生後,就會沒有在追的時候認真,用心, ' O$ {5 g5 E  i! h
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總是變的有點自私,一昧的要更多的愛,而卻把對她的愛,一點一滴的減少。
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所以,在追到心儀的女生後,是否可以寫一張紙,常常提醒自己,   a' S6 x; r' b2 v  F' h: |
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要更認真,更用心,盡力給她最好的,這樣,才不會辜負她,
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畢竟她是選擇了你,你有這個責任跟義務,給她最大的幸福。

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表" w$ g, g1 l8 B; q- j. q6 ]" u! e
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔3 P- v  ?2 h1 F3 P

6 l- a3 I2 _$ i+ r; f0 N/ }想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意,
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現在,她跟你在一起了。   f8 [- w; v  O
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女生多半會幫男朋友想, & L! n% H7 @8 z. F% u

4 H0 u& Z8 ]6 J4 G  ^怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...
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哥除了赞成以外,还能说什么吗?
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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$ y, }, v3 Z/ {, u+ {0 ~$ Q$ s# k不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表9 r7 m/ h' u6 `5 t6 O
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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!
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嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”,哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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说得真好!!!3 V4 k5 ~8 L; z
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!
; S- u# e- B4 D& T/ i有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情
9 [4 b- x: u9 L2 {希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧8 ]2 f) V% {; l. ]0 R& V
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..
5 S! N9 [4 Y1 U% D8 X所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)* }$ H& n  E  v7 ?
但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛, K- S1 O5 S- U4 G& F; N3 `6 d
哈哈

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Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly
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When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms
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On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of . K. G1 J- v; p2 j/ g3 `* K% G/ ?
the
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I was a strong and happy bridegroom.
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! j6 Q9 q' N6 Z1 g# jThis was the scene ten years ago.
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The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid;
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went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were) F" C# }* J/ z4 w; |0 S" d& ?8 C
steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a * u" A+ l7 Y: A: D+ ~5 X
civil
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time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.  d- A% M, U0 _5 M
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Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was & V5 A5 L8 _: g9 p, d; T
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likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.! v6 s, L0 Y: h2 `/ [1 _
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Dew came into my life.
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It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from8 v& P$ \6 z! Y
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This 5 ?2 v' ]1 i7 s$ R7 o1 R$ r( m4 T5 B
was the
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Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her
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suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife 2 w( B; T- v8 k; v
said,
; A5 u, O9 E, _: A% C) H% X; l0 O$ xMen like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.$ s! F* C  d7 G' e
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Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my9 m0 M- T  A1 B8 _9 i" G
wife.. But I couldn't help doing so.3 {  h0 M* {( A3 Q

4 \+ L* x- a9 V7 K" d3 I5 FI moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, ) W1 _( s" X0 ?, W, F& l
O.K.?
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I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of
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impossible to me.( d. ?$ b6 F- L) @( }4 Y3 B% {5 h
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However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No
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mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.6 j1 i5 d( f8 Z1 B4 c& _. W% C7 P

  ]. I3 p) ?% E/ I) l  NHonestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing
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# j% Z7 J; _* s5 q9 tI was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
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TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's
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/ Y7 K9 m4 T1 l, s$ o2 lThis was the means of my entertainment.
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One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce,
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4 R& L0 [! u4 y/ @: @2 Q& Vwill you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.
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she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I 8 ]$ h, Q0 k( ?+ U
couldn't7 U6 `# e& Q; @& W3 Q# S/ t( Y
imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.* `  A; P/ `" j
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When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all 9 Q/ s& M2 H3 Q, ^! B
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staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide 3 O* M- q6 V$ W2 P
something
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my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.
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5 N: r3 _* u/ z& }Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live
6 w5 j8 x) R1 U5 @+ P2 Vtogether. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something * N/ P- H/ n( s' T
to
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hurt in: t9 c. _1 M8 j( S' H
her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
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know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic( f9 d8 V  R. h1 `) |
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She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, ; [5 t- F4 Y: B8 y/ R
why?
% `  i0 v2 m5 f6 v! P  PI'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
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/ @' d3 E3 H" R; v6 u: @$ |. tShe threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
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satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.( w5 Q7 x0 X8 `" ~5 g5 F' a
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With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
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she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She
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) @0 ^; `; x- ]9 m; N; u/ iat it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The
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I
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Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected 8 ?' n8 m, H7 z* H: D$ ^
to
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which
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Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw
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She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from
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month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was1 [  v) I' L6 \. \+ S: y8 d- a
simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she
. W4 p. r& \7 Y2 N  v& h/ x5 qdidn't want him to see our marriage was broken.
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9 G+ D' l5 s( D# e4 f% W/ b& {6 sShe passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do
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still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This' }- [, w8 r- u5 D/ U! b$ C
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I + ~& O! I0 b: P! j7 U; v! R
nodded
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divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from # n5 N. Z* }: M
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bedroom to the door every morning.2 S1 \4 ~% H; a. Q) }. B* y
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I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished
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end her marriage romantically.' ^# `; h8 R5 h' ]

& q* {7 ~& {; j6 y2 @- P# K- lI told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and
; L1 u; S. _3 H' j4 G7 Mthought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face ! G6 O: {  @& @
the
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feel
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention / D0 g+ e/ I/ ?, L) _9 H' K: u
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explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when & j4 K8 m/ f9 [. `$ m* g3 Y4 B( T
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  s. {* g: m/ c( t  I5 R! hbehind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a
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) y3 X/ z' w& @$ v- j9 Bover ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said
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7 Z; F5 ~( {* y! lLet us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat
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1 |' `5 A, V7 B. [# POn the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
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; Q! {$ [2 u6 L& C. @8 wrealized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a
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8 y5 a4 t/ L0 n/ j6 A8 V4 c* R9 NOn the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
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* f  V+ j. b3 z6 R" aOn the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
1 _) d8 H+ F& X- [/ c4 _still
( x) c3 \& z# Z' ]) oan intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The& A. p1 l- H% k& j
visualization of Dew became vague.
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: q4 s/ K( Y" E  l) _0 HOn the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, " ^1 K( c$ `7 ^' R
where
1 }% R. P  {+ \; ]* |" [, H9 T  lshe put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
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The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.
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I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
4 F' t6 |* A, y* Y( L5 u* ^0 Mstronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She 3 c7 h  w- |3 ^
was
" o. O; E7 @( n* d/ J/ T' J/ o, a' Lpicking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a : F  y1 K0 f) I1 T( r: F
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but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
' _5 a! G  |8 w. pgrown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
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thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. ( \( f, P0 }( Y" q- u: v; O
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knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a
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of pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.5 X1 n% H+ l& O2 u- c

" ?% ^( d% t8 ~+ J# dOur son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He % f! X- q8 `6 z* I+ A9 f) P& L6 y
said. To! [0 s+ ^+ |0 j! Y
him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential
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his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I& B' g# Z" S; D* V8 _( {3 E
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
6 d6 g8 c& B6 H2 vminute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
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room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. $ X( q( x: _; R& W, [. d
I
5 j0 h0 S$ _) a, j6 n# rheld her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her & t, c/ F+ }. O: d
much: w$ M6 Q' H: S( @7 e1 i# e" d' F
lighter weight made me sad.
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On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. & |! Z2 w% |% s' q8 E3 u$ \' p+ O
Our
% Y: j2 {3 z* |% g0 kson had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in 4 S# A3 H' e% B
your
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) B1 V% Y/ o/ t9 ]) d$ t, I9 TI held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
+ V) c0 e3 N% \$ @0 x# F) Ulacked intimacy.! G% T, K6 t: \$ k: |4 E
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I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid
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delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened
4 @/ j' e5 a6 I) O  c2 T1 e0 \: cthe
$ B% b4 o. J: d( k0 L$ W+ sdoor. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.; @8 W7 N# g! L" U( w* h* X
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She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no" \$ Q: Y* ^! |2 ]5 K
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
" y! f6 g! P& ^  d3 b' A, A3 Rcan
) G0 f* V0 |; M4 T; c/ d9 _2 [only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring 4 U  V' @6 P6 F
probably
: u) `: D& b0 v0 `% N( e& Nbecause she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we ' U) J; e- G& q8 ]
didn't4 R; d. D/ P% @, G4 m6 l
love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
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home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am
% p5 \6 o- Q3 H8 M0 P2 o% Hold.
( @$ |$ _# e$ t' Q# s2 q0 mSo I have to say sorry to you.
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Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then
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door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.
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3 k! l6 H- b+ [; XWhen I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my " ]1 @: @5 O7 ]# r
wife
6 `0 f3 c5 t9 w* Xwhich was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the - H2 P9 k+ I0 k
card. I
% ^' k" J+ T( ~: {smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

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好多英文字。。。XD  _/ p/ V3 J6 q% }3 l
很懒惰去看。。
我の部落格》  有急事按它找我【

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表
/ x, X4 D9 n4 o) j. d好多英文字。。。XD
0 g# j2 @7 L+ l$ c! N$ n很懒惰去看。。
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基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了,妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱,过后丈夫就愧疚啦....(我缩到超短了...)
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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女生花心啦!" ^, |, [, t, [+ ^8 P
竟然执著于两个男生之中- P  e! ]; ?, R" u0 t
我已经放弃她了
No bOdY KnoW
wHo i ReaLLy aM
i nEveR FeLt tiS EmptY beFore
If i WaNNa nEEd sUmboDy coME aLong
whO wannA coMe FroM mE aNd keeP me STRONG

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不一定每个女生都那样的
试着忘了过去~
开始新的生活...

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the story is so sweet..
. u8 y7 B  X4 Di mean the English one...2 `2 U* T/ r  H
so touching..


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and touchy

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: r) `* x0 u3 ~# l. h愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
0 `& _- t; X2 p1 \8 N6 c它也是一種成長,一種領悟。" h# B. k) Y5 ?5 x0 ?5 B4 B" P
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0 t4 f- G, [! I我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长,一种领悟。) |8 v  b8 p7 S3 T- Q0 H: g9 G
每一次爱情结束,都让我觉得,我的视野更宽阔了。7 B1 Y$ F! p. W6 M$ D. |# C
对人对爱情,我有更多包容的能力了。
我没有雪白的翅膀,所以我不是天使。

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得到与付出之间,我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗?但是,至少我是幸福的。
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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