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作者: Xuan 时间: 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 标题: 其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔6 ?' N) T; L0 i) R4 X9 t* Q6 {

想想當初你見到她是多麼開心，她的一頻一笑都讓你注意，

現在，她跟你在一起了。 + _* C9 c) I8 B! I% \

女生多半會幫男朋友想， + o& p/ ^3 t; j$ ~
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怕他太累．怕他錢花太多，所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐，去玩好的， * J- W: c& {* N  d$ e( c; v" f0 E

但是，你有沒有注意過，當她在跟你說不用的時候，其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。 : }- }  i% H- l
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也許男生會想，我都跟她那麼熟了，有些東西，節日就該免了吧， 0 R; l1 b, ~3 `7 ]

但是雖然再熟，雖然你少去這些東西，她不會對你怎樣， + I" v' b  ~( o( J: q
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但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花，在情人節製造點浪漫，聖誕節加一點驚喜，

你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意，當她收到你的心意時，是多麼的高興， / G1 S7 D3 L: X/ y) G( l

而不是說她已經跟你在一起了，就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她，把一切都省了。

女生總是不敢開口要求，總是為了男生想好多， " Y( @. o( A6 m! L

男孩子何不多想一些，多做一點點，你會發現，女孩子好感動，好高興。 ' _* Z, c) ^- O; Q
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既然愛她，就多用一點心在她身上， * Z; ?3 s! b3 u& b7 y8 e7 e

所謂的用心，不是只有把時間花在她身上， / ?; }: _" G5 L  t5 p) m

而是要去探尋她的內心，學著去懂她， 1 S: M0 W8 L) _- I* t1 N

她需要的是什麼，她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼， / b) p" T$ |2 ~
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只要男生肯用心，將會發現，
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她的一舉一動，在在都在表現著她對你的愛，無可取代。 5 x/ m! D- x, w  V0 ?- W

很多時候很多小事情小動作，都是有涵義在裡面的，

如果你不用心，只有等到後來她離開了你， ' \+ b3 O0 g! M: `; [
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才惋惜，才後悔。

兩個人能相愛，並不容易，

愛情，並不只是因為需要有一個人疼， ( o% S$ g' b8 v+ B
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它也是一種成長，一種領悟。

當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生， : X+ F2 G  Q' |; ]9 J6 w9 X
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一個願意為你付出的女生，
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她的快樂與幸福，就是你的責任。 ) n+ [# y) X9 N% j4 q

女人的心，男人若不能保護， 3 ?1 n: ~2 ?& U# z

就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。 % W' V' H. l+ \" Q! R8 i- e

我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。

因為總是等女生開口，才會去做什麼，有時候，這樣的感覺，似乎少了什麼，

我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。   B% K( A. S5 w" K3 E& n- V5 c
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男生，總是在追到女生後，就會沒有在追的時候認真，用心，
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總是變的有點自私，一昧的要更多的愛，而卻把對她的愛，一點一滴的減少。
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所以，在追到心儀的女生後，是否可以寫一張紙，常常提醒自己，

要更認真，更用心，盡力給她最好的，這樣，才不會辜負她，

畢竟她是選擇了你，你有這個責任跟義務，給她最大的幸福。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-7-24 09:25 PM

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表
- [. p" {2 _6 Z其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔; G. S- n& O* _5 h5 c

. m5 f& ^8 ] v; S想想當初你見到她是多麼開心，她的一頻一笑都讓你注意， , I; w3 @ s- I4 V; z

3 x7 G3 Z% O2 }+ Z現在，她跟你在一起了。
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; L- [- X! x+ b2 S2 r* k8 g6 A女生多半會幫男朋友想，
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怕他太累．怕他錢花太多，所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...

哥除了赞成以外，还能说什么吗？

作者: Xuan 时间: 2006-7-25 09:16 PM

有3 D0 t1 m- i0 q2 q3 ^* r
不要做世界上下一个猪头男友！

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-7-25 09:45 PM

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表4 `4 V7 J* G5 R! Z5 e. C+ p1 ~+ [' Q
有
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嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”，哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~

作者: akiya-kiko 时间: 2006-8-2 03:58 PM

说得真好!!!, h O& ?6 J7 L S) P
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!& p/ R; q- N% A+ Z- X/ i
有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情+ T$ K2 E* P$ `
希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..
所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭) z! v5 H. v0 q
但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛# ^% u% H, K% J
哈哈

作者: akiya-kiko 时间: 2006-8-2 03:59 PM

Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly

When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms

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On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped : x6 O5 d5 E& ?  `( I! k7 b& D
in) ?. d; v. f8 h% F9 G) [# A
front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of
the
car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and
shy..
I was a strong and happy bridegroom./ h' L2 r; _& [9 F' H

This was the scene ten years ago.
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The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; . C& B: A6 m# ]% C
I
went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were$ L2 q' n; ]0 P& l
steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a
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servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the
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time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was
more5 ]" a% n$ j6 T/ O$ F
likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life.
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It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This $ }) J+ J! v" D4 X' W5 J9 B
was the/ }6 {; T0 q4 j: T. s) Z& R- H" ?
apartment I bought for her.
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Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her ; q% ?# t/ u5 {% l3 ~& W8 e
words( e2 g! \, i+ {% Q$ _
suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife
said,
Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.7 i6 c+ t) C& E0 I4 I

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
wife.. But I couldn't help doing so.* r6 P0 j, x; c9 R! x7 M
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I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture,
O.K.?
I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, 5 x( w9 D7 e, v9 d$ T' }& p
because( ?! v3 V. I8 ~1 {. ^' n" w
I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something  L6 W- i5 P% F# f6 s
impossible to me.
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However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No
matter how
mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.
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Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing
dinner.
I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
watched
TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's
body.
This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce,
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will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.
Apparently
she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I + g5 x+ i1 c% G7 c& G9 d
couldn't" ?" D2 l- r+ J6 m# X$ m
imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.
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When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all $ W& Q$ W/ P1 s& u" I  \' e- y
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staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide
something
while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently
smiled at' X$ p. ?; u2 u# A' }  U
my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.( F" L: h* @5 O& l. Z) \

Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live
together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something 5 ]" |6 m3 a; o; e  u8 S2 E
to
tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the
hurt in
her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
her; Z% ?8 S1 [$ ]) H4 K; m+ Y0 I" A
know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic8 C7 J6 e4 |- R/ x
calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
why?
I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
angry..
She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
wanted" z: b* k% |& ?' A5 S- k& k: V
to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give 0 P1 ^, O6 C6 ~  K
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satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.
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With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated , G$ e3 l8 K6 P/ r  v4 Z
that
she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She
glanced
at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The
woman who
had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But + _$ a+ e! Q9 L  [6 M9 W
I
could not take back what I had said.$ o. o6 b1 K5 A$ v

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected
to
see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
which) [+ e) D: P: l0 u7 T% }
had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.2 e4 ^4 W. b/ [: D
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Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw 5 h( S8 T  [. _. }' w, g  G- X
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writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I
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she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from $ a. p1 ?4 N. a9 E
me, but' `& X3 d; @6 b7 g/ T: ], c, s
I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the
month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was7 f: e+ V1 N+ c% O( \
simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she( U4 Q$ F2 Z% @; y$ w' g
didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.2 {9 {; x2 N9 f

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do - r' C% G9 J; T- l6 T6 S
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still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This* v2 z; [* m& y0 D
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I + K# Z, I, B' q9 T0 C
nodded
and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I
have
a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when
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divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from 0 z8 f# G& G- A8 s4 Z
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bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished - V- e& T# l4 r
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end her marriage romantically.3 G* }% i9 O' [; F* b3 ~
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I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and$ W1 c( N; a3 \# ~% q  S( }8 R- `
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face + H; P0 M; ~9 j4 W
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result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me 5 Q  ?' j% a5 ]1 e9 H8 L
feel
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention
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explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when
I
carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son 7 E5 g0 w: S7 w. I' c6 B
clapped
behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a 7 r8 }0 _0 O3 q9 _  B; c6 s
sense
of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I
walked
over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said ; K& z( }2 Q/ ?
softly,6 Z4 D0 v. E( o+ Q; G. e# G
Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I
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On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I
realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a + b" E! I* _8 U) n; n. y
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time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles
on
her face.
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On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
demolished. Be careful when you pass there.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
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an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
visualization of Dew became vague.: M/ z7 d( p: N8 E7 r

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, 0 O$ l; i) p. o% `1 a' E
where, i# L1 f3 H0 R9 j3 j+ _$ w; U6 X& s) M
she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
nodded.
The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.
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I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She
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picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a + {+ A) o; M1 i! Y
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but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
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thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
I
knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a
sense. I/ Y  D) F. `- d
of pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.
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Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He
said. To; [7 F6 z& [* X
him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential
part of
his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the   k  ^4 |# f7 t" M( P
sitting$ P7 }0 S3 G6 d. t( b) G7 [+ G7 t3 ^
room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. $ ]) n1 f$ n  H# ?" a7 d
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held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her
much
lighter weight made me sad.
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On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. , R: w1 p5 }& _) l5 M6 f% w# b
Our
son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in
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arms until we are old.

I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life0 i# |9 o) e. P" L8 B1 P
lacked intimacy.9 p. ~9 ?' g" q( E
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I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid
any# U1 F/ L! h. F+ D7 F
delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened , e) e6 h# Y) g0 J. B+ W
the' F6 b2 h* o( J2 w
door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.' A$ B) ~( X( x7 E) V; [

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
can
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring
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because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
didn't
love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
into the
home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am ( a+ _) C% \: [2 Z' i. N0 P, y
old.
So I have to say sorry to you./ A% d4 E1 R9 A" J2 i' q+ e

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then
slammed the' N& k% g7 g0 T# G3 o2 F
door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my / }6 O+ f( h! V* e3 ]; l4 g# J
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which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the
card. I' C. `" h% l2 C! Z4 w2 D
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

作者: 凌白麒 时间: 2006-10-29 07:09 AM

好多英文字。。。XD
很懒惰去看。。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2006-10-29 05:21 PM

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表! N: Z0 ^* z7 Z1 r* C% R
好多英文字。。。XD' K* n! c- ]; r5 X4 j
很懒惰去看。。

基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了，妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱，过后丈夫就愧疚啦....（我缩到超短了...）

作者: Daidai 时间: 2006-10-30 06:40 PM

女生花心啦！" C% W# T% [! X6 k2 w8 |
竟然执著于两个男生之中
我已经放弃她了

作者: SilverJun 时间: 2007-2-20 10:47 AM

不一定每个女生都那样的

作者: haha 时间: 2007-10-2 12:12 AM

the story is so sweet..% T2 T5 U6 x8 d" v" @
i mean the English one...+ ]1 ~2 Q% q; g& d
so touching..

作者: misterhai 时间: 2007-10-2 12:29 AM

and touchy

作者: yingxi 时间: 2007-10-5 08:12 PM

引用:

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愛情，並不只是因為需要有一個人疼，5 t& M: B% `! V
它也是一種成長，一種領悟。
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我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长，一种领悟。
每一次爱情结束，都让我觉得，我的视野更宽阔了。
对人对爱情，我有更多包容的能力了。

作者: Sanctuary 时间: 2007-10-6 10:06 PM

得到与付出之间，我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗？但是，至少我是幸福的。

作者: lizhizhen0 时间: 2009-6-2 11:12 AM

我知道。。我珍惜。。。

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