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其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔/ N7 D  P1 i8 {* `2 B) n) w: w
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想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意, 1 Z4 `  N3 M9 U2 r$ [! Y" H: E$ [
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現在,她跟你在一起了。 6 Y3 U" }/ L( r# a" F& c! L
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女生多半會幫男朋友想, . g5 J4 u/ n) n9 G
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐,去玩好的,
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7 _: l2 N9 l+ K2 r$ n" D9 f5 }但是,你有沒有注意過,當她在跟你說不用的時候,其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。 . c+ W, J) s1 X! G; G. X

- K8 V  L3 t2 P2 k. V# P# W也許男生會想,我都跟她那麼熟了,有些東西,節日就該免了吧, 2 a2 U, E4 Y3 i9 G
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但是雖然再熟,雖然你少去這些東西,她不會對你怎樣,
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7 d7 Z8 Q+ K" z& m但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花,在情人節製造點浪漫,聖誕節加一點驚喜, 8 y: J- {! Q0 N( e4 [; P3 V
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你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意,當她收到你的心意時,是多麼的高興,
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% P0 X# b6 P. F. `/ i而不是說她已經跟你在一起了,就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她,把一切都省了。 ; l. F( E6 _, k( O8 v- P3 ^# j
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女生總是不敢開口要求,總是為了男生想好多, + R' i! E1 V/ r, F% e0 U
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男孩子何不多想一些,多做一點點,你會發現,女孩子好感動,好高興。 3 v/ \- i  c& z5 O0 P

! I8 I; ~% o6 u+ ^5 _既然愛她,就多用一點心在她身上, ) b% ]( ]% ]0 C; c4 B, a* S

) |' J. p  W! m3 [: W( t, ^) r所謂的用心,不是只有把時間花在她身上,   j: ^4 y  g) X/ E1 b

, ]1 ?7 V0 C; ~/ R2 @$ R而是要去探尋她的內心,學著去懂她, ( Y8 _6 T. p% m2 H

7 y! l8 y& o3 M# H9 B+ \她需要的是什麼,她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼, + Q: A# b+ ]) g
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只要男生肯用心,將會發現, 1 Y- h  Z4 ?2 n( j8 ~: @, C
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她的一舉一動,在在都在表現著她對你的愛,無可取代。
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! n- b2 A: ?/ T1 U# i' T) q很多時候很多小事情小動作,都是有涵義在裡面的, / x/ }/ ]$ J! M# c$ ~: H' O' {

+ q6 n" x) q! x& d如果你不用心,只有等到後來她離開了你, $ {  j! i* g0 ^1 z3 A  D- O1 z! V
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才惋惜,才後悔。
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$ m6 F- k, ]# D兩個人能相愛,並不容易, 2 u. L) i8 F( T0 d# X4 `9 s
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愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
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它也是一種成長,一種領悟。 3 e; c2 F2 |2 C/ r1 B

  h& p, v+ ^2 w) `2 ]當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生,
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' H5 q6 c# r0 q& j2 b2 }一個願意為你付出的女生, " B. S. x- s3 _- y
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她的快樂與幸福,就是你的責任。
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女人的心,男人若不能保護, 8 J7 w# D. z& V2 ^
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就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。
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我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。
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因為總是等女生開口,才會去做什麼,有時候,這樣的感覺,似乎少了什麼, # L4 j" z* D7 R8 ^' I

6 a7 n  \/ A: [3 j+ v我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。
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男生,總是在追到女生後,就會沒有在追的時候認真,用心,
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總是變的有點自私,一昧的要更多的愛,而卻把對她的愛,一點一滴的減少。
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$ n5 E( O- Q2 S/ A  c所以,在追到心儀的女生後,是否可以寫一張紙,常常提醒自己,
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要更認真,更用心,盡力給她最好的,這樣,才不會辜負她, ' i- k. ]0 c" q) v

2 M2 r- Y/ q, {畢竟她是選擇了你,你有這個責任跟義務,給她最大的幸福。

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表8 Q4 \: _( }+ x' e9 `6 K- g
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔
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$ l( m: y4 \# g想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意, 7 |; g5 o2 J# i+ }

- F: \* ]& _2 M4 u  f) U現在,她跟你在一起了。   k# L: {5 x. a# _& P5 l( t% s
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女生多半會幫男朋友想,
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哥除了赞成以外,还能说什么吗?
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表
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8 o6 w3 _4 w2 w1 H9 c0 K( k不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!
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! t/ @+ Y, D/ V4 I. X" d7 U嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”,哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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说得真好!!!- Q3 Y+ b, E0 ]9 W( ?
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!
8 V* E  t. q5 m' `有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情
- O& l. Q  I* v' I, |$ h3 X$ _" x希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧6 ]: C0 y: {4 A3 p* x
但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..
3 j! g. @, |& ~所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)
" B( p% |" e1 h# ]但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛
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Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly% E3 `3 s6 S  q! |

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9 @" P7 M; X- G* o; ~; JWhen You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms- \' v* w" N! [- m$ h! v

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# Q/ s7 w9 j0 n$ v6 @9 c# mOn my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of : l  u- D, o. I( u$ G
the
' \9 ^' q: I( ^7 r) I5 dcar in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and / c4 c5 a( C; y/ E
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I was a strong and happy bridegroom.0 j  J4 S% G" H+ V* ]) o. g

8 o' R( g& t- f* G9 g: X! J: OThis was the scene ten years ago.
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; r* r" |; ^' p: b. i2 b8 p+ |1 `The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid;
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$ [1 m7 w- ~, ]5 Xwent into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were
- A. V5 V% d) x& }4 ysteadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a
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servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the 8 l4 T- {+ O; g$ f, K0 E, r' B
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time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.
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Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was & b6 L$ w+ h8 A" F; {
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likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.
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( Q# g9 y. d% r$ x* ?- z- \+ cDew came into my life.
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It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from
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was the
8 z0 V3 c4 B# sapartment I bought for her.& F+ N( `2 n, [3 c% D+ G/ d
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Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her
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suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife / H( g# e% q3 J) c( k8 A, J
said,
0 @. e+ `$ R. UMen like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.
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1 g9 g: C5 L: o  pThinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my6 Y5 V4 b" O8 u$ v" V/ N/ V
wife.. But I couldn't help doing so.
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I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, 4 `* `, A7 t3 F5 ]7 D/ _! K
O.K.?
+ E+ d3 v- o+ |  uI've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, , z" w: m; f; D5 N/ F
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I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of6 E: I; `& x$ }- H( c: j
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something! C9 M3 E; s9 D* `
impossible to me.
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& R  U4 `4 U" E, e2 k$ B0 _$ n. Emildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt." K: b, |2 w: ?, _

6 i' V5 T. O8 t. D/ N* }Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing ) h' F6 t$ ~+ W3 r* b8 W
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I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we . ?8 @7 C9 l  z
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TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's # Q+ @1 n' X2 V; K: R- ^
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This was the means of my entertainment.: W9 q  n$ t9 ]4 M' S
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One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, 0 U7 l" o: ^2 |: J* _
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will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.
* T2 t7 b1 v# gApparently: j8 P' i2 l# h0 [" N) i6 O) O
she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I 3 Z) R% i6 O* a3 f2 r
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imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.( t; T5 [2 c) }  P

0 f% x  r- t' W  _" gWhen my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all
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staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide   w# }( X* s' m) ~+ H
something
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smiled at
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Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live
5 Q7 ?: [& {. h, |, G; g1 E; qtogether. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something . W, N% A& Y  o# O$ d: J$ ~
to
3 X* @& P5 M. G3 b7 i# ttell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the 6 Y3 S; b' e3 X, `7 l8 }
hurt in
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know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic
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She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, : c+ [. o( C: a6 V$ l* _4 A
why?4 ~" [; _# l# q( H" z% A
I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her % z: ]) C+ L9 u$ D3 s- S; Q  Z
angry..
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
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$ H: Q* l6 [+ O, Csatisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.
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With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
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at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The
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could not take back what I had said.
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Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected * x: w& h8 w5 ^  {, }2 F4 V
to
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# Z: ^! T% O, G/ FLate that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw 2 H8 I' |5 h' y7 {- A
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writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I
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she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.
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# @) U. N/ s4 n5 q9 j$ J3 E" |9 MShe brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from
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5 v! W. A' {1 W' z: l2 G8 {I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the
; N( g# A% L) g; zmonth's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was
+ Q3 u& s% \9 b- p& a& Xsimple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she
- M' u& [! N& d: p/ j, hdidn't want him to see our marriage was broken.
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. |7 r6 \' i! X6 f7 ?3 J  jShe passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do
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" ^* z6 w. T  {. i( X7 I4 ustill remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This
+ \$ g8 y+ M6 \! A$ m& }4 `question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I
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and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I
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a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when & O+ a( x2 O, d# Z. f" g3 m. c8 J
we
  j1 D* _+ J" N. H0 x  \divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from
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$ [+ \( B% R; [% E  s1 A' kI accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished   l& `, u& p# Z0 g- x) v+ r
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end her marriage romantically.
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I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and
$ I8 p1 H7 B5 T, Nthought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face
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# @+ @5 a% M8 a  t1 W5 ~4 Gresult of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me 2 K( R/ h3 b8 D/ _& c5 H3 V$ x
feel
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My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention
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; H% c$ W, K; A2 lcarried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son " T. B3 d6 q. o
clapped( M9 X5 A. p- L+ }5 p+ ?7 r
behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a
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of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I
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softly,5 q5 C+ p' [+ s8 T$ ^2 B% p
Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat
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( j, @5 g. @, L$ D# c; T! ~On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my6 y9 h6 P+ {3 Q1 D
chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
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$ f% L" l7 W+ v3 m9 B+ ?1 U; }realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a 6 S; j" Z2 {, F  W
long
  B6 ^. n$ b! w9 a, x' Mtime. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles * y5 M4 }3 A' @4 }, s: Q; c# i+ N
on
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On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
3 O$ R* V/ A+ F& g( ~' qdemolished. Be careful when you pass there.
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On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
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; a+ ~0 u! O, w( N! }, ^9 Q; k; uan intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The6 p7 z( t2 Z! T- d9 I! W* j
visualization of Dew became vague.: o% y  c# q- O' ~- z- l

' ]9 G" p1 i; j2 i( C( r- UOn the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as,
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she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I 8 z1 Z! }0 V# x( A1 V
nodded.% _3 F. r: N9 u
The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.8 w( @- T2 J7 x, X& _1 r9 `: r# i

/ {+ p8 f8 r( [- KI felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
2 u2 g2 H5 r* X9 O0 {) X8 Pstronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She , h( Y" y% s8 g# ^0 t7 M1 C3 @
was
0 o7 @3 t9 R8 f5 F" Q) |' @" Mpicking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a . d5 z, x, O, \6 V- n
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but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have6 d) a  l- ^8 x& }: W
grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she
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thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
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; @" i1 G6 c* \# p1 Pknew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a
' s$ r2 @2 B3 L# y" n* K* usense
3 d& c6 f! y& }3 S0 sof pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.
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1 G# \& p) o' h- `! |! nOur son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He 4 Y4 W- c1 ~# i' G* V
said. To
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part of
+ ~& G  j6 Z" @/ Xhis life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I0 N+ b% }( I" _, @9 y
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
, `# l$ Q0 K9 V+ r. Uminute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the $ f) e8 S- ?0 I) I' E: }
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room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. * W& h  |" y* d" h. H7 n9 r) D
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held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her / ]7 h) D7 w" `
much
8 l) W$ b# q; z$ N0 p& elighter weight made me sad.
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On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. : j( {1 S: o8 ^+ U1 K
Our
1 ]2 l$ A1 j7 k( r+ k, m2 Q5 a3 \son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in * S5 b; `2 ?0 ]: T! r3 H) A2 r. }
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arms until we are old.0 M. \6 |5 u9 [  a/ }0 ?
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I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life: l7 v( Z, y4 t  w/ g
lacked intimacy.- R. r( c" E  g$ j; }; d
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I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid $ @9 Z; c- v! |, b
any
* S+ X# u+ i# ?delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened
5 h0 v: O/ q8 u. G* S! Nthe
; b! X3 e5 j% ~+ Mdoor. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.
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: L- @" I4 \- d8 h7 U5 x9 NShe looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no
& B, Y! o$ m; c' k  J5 G, sfever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I + f' D9 n0 p; a9 w4 i
can: }, G0 m  [1 p0 h
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring : i# R5 R: F" o7 r, _
probably
" S# U4 S$ `: D) i6 r# \$ Mbecause she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
8 p( z( D' y) G, K. Rdidn't
% B, p( O, k5 q2 blove each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
% P7 K- f: \$ ~4 ?into the
  \% f) K8 P( J1 s" p) ~home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am
5 B- u5 p8 l8 a8 `  Y, j; w2 ^* yold.! ]9 q2 e) @  G, o% v) a
So I have to say sorry to you.
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) r0 S/ F% @1 Y: ~Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then ) |/ |: d6 O$ d8 f( s8 ^
slammed the/ B9 K% n- n- [3 P" x
door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.) w& C3 r) f0 x5 N! d

# H6 b: h8 q2 Z# Q$ i% I/ a0 xWhen I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my
: N& B3 R# X2 n8 {1 mwife
3 v; G; U& {+ X& F$ a: t4 B) @which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the
. Q  R" T# ?& K- Kcard. I
. y% }/ J- q% g" Q9 @; I+ E+ z1 ksmiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

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好多英文字。。。XD
# @, p1 J% Q1 k很懒惰去看。。
我の部落格》  有急事按它找我【

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表
. W: L. U' d% {" f/ a- ]1 a好多英文字。。。XD' V: I' s* i; G4 X1 Y
很懒惰去看。。
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. f; L6 ~0 _1 p( k基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了,妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱,过后丈夫就愧疚啦....(我缩到超短了...)
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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女生花心啦!4 U1 O' p0 _0 u! }8 B
竟然执著于两个男生之中% m# c7 Z9 t& W
我已经放弃她了
No bOdY KnoW
wHo i ReaLLy aM
i nEveR FeLt tiS EmptY beFore
If i WaNNa nEEd sUmboDy coME aLong
whO wannA coMe FroM mE aNd keeP me STRONG

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不一定每个女生都那样的
试着忘了过去~
开始新的生活...

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the story is so sweet..- p+ e7 M( z3 a0 H/ U( y, e5 ^9 w* o
i mean the English one...
& X" ?& A, M* I! Dso touching..


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and touchy

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愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
7 M% `, }& M! N. O' T! P' @它也是一種成長,一種領悟。  ~2 w7 W8 ~3 Q. k( v! w
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  D/ A7 r- k6 ?! N4 \" T- H我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长,一种领悟。
5 d2 [* J! ^+ b" x6 o每一次爱情结束,都让我觉得,我的视野更宽阔了。1 g# k1 l9 D/ z2 Y' @
对人对爱情,我有更多包容的能力了。
我没有雪白的翅膀,所以我不是天使。

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得到与付出之间,我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗?但是,至少我是幸福的。
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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