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其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的

其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔  D0 c# ?8 _: Z4 Y+ f4 ~; ?. Z

9 x5 ~1 Q: e$ E7 L$ n想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意, / j: e3 _: V% M

7 A' U1 H, c; U# ]9 z& l現在,她跟你在一起了。
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- H& t( d; z3 ]+ C女生多半會幫男朋友想,
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐,去玩好的,   P9 _) Z9 z. B& H6 C0 E! V

# h% S: A" G8 V但是,你有沒有注意過,當她在跟你說不用的時候,其實眼睛裡還是會帶有一絲期待。
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& n" q# K$ s; s+ v也許男生會想,我都跟她那麼熟了,有些東西,節日就該免了吧,
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' j1 K% r9 \7 l, D+ T7 l但是雖然再熟,雖然你少去這些東西,她不會對你怎樣,
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2 p8 ~7 r9 m- G% G5 @# Z+ T/ b& x但是你何不在她生日時送束鮮花,在情人節製造點浪漫,聖誕節加一點驚喜,
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你會發現其實女生嘴上說不在意,當她收到你的心意時,是多麼的高興, , c* D% g: j' G/ I4 q. R1 o. V

- O) @( W3 s; Y% t而不是說她已經跟你在一起了,就不用像以前在追她時那樣對她,把一切都省了。 6 {7 @5 }5 w% L  I! J6 ^9 E

2 A2 ?7 r: D/ k& k& i2 b; S8 ~7 n女生總是不敢開口要求,總是為了男生想好多, 0 I) a7 m9 z2 p' W

# z& M9 ^1 P2 N% \: H: a0 m男孩子何不多想一些,多做一點點,你會發現,女孩子好感動,好高興。
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7 X! D; s9 O& ~' ^1 C6 n既然愛她,就多用一點心在她身上,
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所謂的用心,不是只有把時間花在她身上,
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而是要去探尋她的內心,學著去懂她, " l& p1 N1 U& L( ]
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她需要的是什麼,她想表達但沒說出來的是什麼,
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* C  S9 X+ A% Z; T# d  V只要男生肯用心,將會發現,   ]# d5 v# `$ f7 m

/ B7 G+ F" s! d9 ~) d  \8 {% x3 x3 D* d她的一舉一動,在在都在表現著她對你的愛,無可取代。 6 Y2 B* A  {( s; S

( k& G2 V2 |# F- a很多時候很多小事情小動作,都是有涵義在裡面的, 5 ^0 a$ i, w* w" W
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如果你不用心,只有等到後來她離開了你, 2 r4 P: ?; m6 {6 d1 @

' ~* {" x5 b# q, p" @- t- x1 I$ B才惋惜,才後悔。 ) G6 \+ {& ^6 W! u3 x. u* S/ i( o2 e

( f  d0 i4 D! M5 x9 Y兩個人能相愛,並不容易,
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9 q  F( c7 a& d, }愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
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$ l/ F& H7 X- F) T它也是一種成長,一種領悟。 5 G/ k) v( }3 u0 `" R- C

: j1 q9 i( }0 l4 T( q當你遇到一個願意與你心靈互相交會的女生, # D8 _6 l& E  f. X  P) x0 [% \
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一個願意為你付出的女生, " s: }7 ^; `: n, {9 a0 w0 z
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她的快樂與幸福,就是你的責任。
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女人的心,男人若不能保護,
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  A/ _% J" b" c) z( d就沒有資格談戀愛、談幸福、談…。
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我現在覺得…為什男生會常常被說木頭了。 % z3 I' K% D$ O% E

) v5 ?' ]2 ^+ A% y% ]4 O因為總是等女生開口,才會去做什麼,有時候,這樣的感覺,似乎少了什麼, 4 G. d% o$ r2 A' K2 }7 Z! B

% |3 ^8 p" |  S+ D* p- C3 @0 I我想是一份感覺跟默契吧。
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男生,總是在追到女生後,就會沒有在追的時候認真,用心, ; A5 J2 x9 ?4 D# ]& |

; w5 i6 i* ?8 K. q總是變的有點自私,一昧的要更多的愛,而卻把對她的愛,一點一滴的減少。 ! R  _" j0 U- r" h

/ G& w" |! V" a- ^( i0 p所以,在追到心儀的女生後,是否可以寫一張紙,常常提醒自己,
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要更認真,更用心,盡力給她最好的,這樣,才不會辜負她, $ ~; |7 x4 }& \2 q; ?  e
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畢竟她是選擇了你,你有這個責任跟義務,給她最大的幸福。

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-24 09:13 PM 发表' z4 x5 E: F4 a, j0 x  l# z; p
其實女生是需要珍惜的,不然一定會後悔
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想想當初你見到她是多麼開心,她的一頻一笑都讓你注意,
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現在,她跟你在一起了。
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! Q+ X7 G- \! Z/ o, S$ ?" R女生多半會幫男朋友想,   F4 ]1 {, U  C# i; _* f' ?0 ?
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怕他太累.怕他錢花太多,所以不敢叫他帶他去吃大餐 ...
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哥除了赞成以外,还能说什么吗?
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!

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原帖由 Xuan 于 2006-7-25 09:16 PM 发表% F, m* k. t$ @" R1 z9 G

: r" U7 z) i5 L. p2 F2 s% `2 C不要做世界上下一个猪头男友!
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' w8 z8 {6 ^! u( K" y5 ~% C嗯....明白了啦~~~有宝贝“监督”,哥应该不会成为下一个猪头吧~~~~
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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说得真好!!!4 M' D. M# d" S, k* n# R
我想凡是男生都应该进来看才对!# E/ R' {2 [" T/ E1 i0 b
有时并不是说男生什么,但他们就是比较慢领悟到事情/ j* |# n5 W3 D2 a
希望我以下登的故事也可以作一个提示吧
1 R1 D. A( T; X9 o7 w但因为想用原文才表达到那意思..
2 P- {5 l" k& ^4 [( Y所以小妹或许会被扣威望哦....(哭)4 r4 _5 l) D- [/ W3 Y- {
但没关系啦.助人为快乐之本嘛& i1 \2 w- z0 Z& t; d# z  O* x
哈哈

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Subject: Fw: Story from a husband - please read it slowly
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7 k9 @" i' Y1 M2 X9 uWhen You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms& {* O) X0 C  J/ y+ m. e

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, V$ Z: v# z8 L/ xOn my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped
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front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of 4 e& y% k" q, a- ]4 P& E
the
& t+ g; x  e" e+ [7 w* acar in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and / A* Q7 x; U" u$ ]
shy..
9 j( W9 C' h6 l  V" E8 _. X( U7 nI was a strong and happy bridegroom.
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; ^5 Q9 H: I7 {This was the scene ten years ago.
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* l5 i1 s1 q0 ~% d  `The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; " U3 M7 a- G9 I3 u  @
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went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were
7 r. O# U$ F8 C/ msteadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a 5 q, \) `" O. N
civil
8 {* U+ `6 n3 y6 L3 iservant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the
8 D. f/ `/ D9 K+ l, O/ w! |6 c6 V- K+ tsame
# I' z, l% g$ Y$ I$ ~time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.
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) d4 B' Z- f) s( JOur marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was 4 `3 X* k( C, A1 S0 G6 a4 e
more
! T2 _2 m, U. i2 j2 K/ \$ J9 Ilikely to be affected by unpredictable changes.
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Dew came into my life.
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It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from
# R" ]: g' U8 ?3 ?behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This
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apartment I bought for her.
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Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her
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suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife
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Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.
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, j+ P* ?! c( j1 z: j8 HThinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
3 e9 K6 V2 K- E- ywife.. But I couldn't help doing so.
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3 d+ \5 d' {) o4 W: yI moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture,
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I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy,
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I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of1 H0 @. q9 Q) C3 ~
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something. d0 r! o' P. F9 r8 r; s- b  X# g( Z
impossible to me.
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However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No $ l; L% ?% B" l; B$ V- d
matter how0 I  O  r6 G* Y, n; W
mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.
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Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing
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9 q" R0 z: [( ], A; [( T" \I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we $ u4 y" T' n' u, D. {9 F
watched
  }6 q9 p, x* [+ ?8 x- M+ pTV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's
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  b) h4 A! Q& q& kThis was the means of my entertainment.
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3 q; k9 H4 @! p: C! ^$ Z& z& O! V; HOne day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, ; r: v7 \6 @2 g% d1 R$ b+ m+ ~
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will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. 4 i7 |* t" y" c( _. s, ?- v- c
Apparently
- C, k' P+ u1 eshe believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I * |9 ]$ \+ Q1 F
couldn't1 E- C; x# t- i6 B
imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.
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When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all
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. E( y* s$ ^6 w/ u" `staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide $ X& |4 v( o  G" i& B: J! s7 L* d
something
7 D3 p  d: j" f) t- _0 f& z' a7 N. Wwhile talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently
- f0 t* q6 `" n0 fsmiled at
. K3 c" @" }7 Vmy subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.3 W1 g5 e* g) D1 K& c# H3 [

0 K8 U+ s8 g, M; v5 G' f# P1 eOnce again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live4 z- {8 u/ G  X% U8 R! e
together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
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When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something . a0 [6 ~" G, @$ ]: d, C% X
to
6 J$ K0 W& t/ b5 s; otell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the , M) L; F0 a3 z2 l# ~+ R
hurt in
7 _2 N: e4 p1 Y- m  k* Gher eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
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% S& w1 p& \# bknow what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic3 v# d1 J4 h+ K) `* B
calmly.
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She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
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I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
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- L7 X0 B- m4 B/ _She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!% i  b9 P/ J& T$ U4 ]; b
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That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she . {1 b* P6 @3 f2 z/ E. l) T
wanted
$ F0 ^( h- s, J, I6 Uto find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give
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! y( [8 P7 j2 B( f; G; U$ Bsatisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.% l, [% d5 h* |$ f! A4 K4 z& C- a

* o6 h7 R4 Y3 FWith a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
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) h' [' ?9 I9 |3 c/ V( M- y) Lshe could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She
# _3 G# Z- Z. T' Y8 V! @5 u% aglanced
% A; Y4 f6 Q9 i; C, ?  ?8 |at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The / @. c) n; G/ H# X2 k$ G7 p
woman who
! @; C' c0 w3 z, l6 mhad been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But ! @% u$ m( x$ m' }! ^2 D
I
8 k/ U& ~9 h" |6 h, A+ ?" W  Tcould not take back what I had said., n$ e! G5 z* Q6 `
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Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected : z6 X2 c& O3 s$ Y5 f4 K5 q4 ~
to
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had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.
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Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw
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! N' {) V. t1 y, Qwriting something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I & Q/ d9 Y0 E# V& Z( e& n  V
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she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.4 K( d* h2 P$ m7 h' p+ A% \/ l2 n

0 b) O( M  A2 QShe brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from 9 N0 w- ~1 L7 `) C
me, but
; ]6 D$ \2 d7 u+ T9 T0 AI was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the  G! ]2 ~- i1 i- U5 N
month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was9 {& X+ t8 F5 {# B
simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she" _( h% [* t5 V$ h  }
didn't want him to see our marriage was broken./ E" i3 U# ~+ T6 Q8 b& @- |' a
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She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do
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still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This
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nodded
/ b1 y" ]! A$ [5 hand said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I - K6 f6 P7 Y( V+ E# I
have
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we  \" L* O8 w' c  Q7 I
divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from * _- v% g1 x( ?  D8 a; e
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bedroom to the door every morning.+ I, R, I" t  @* f4 f7 S& n. F

9 ~; j/ q% B1 J0 MI accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished 4 m3 g! y" C/ {% o$ U, z3 D; ^# F
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end her marriage romantically.' f& i# b9 G  j, \5 {( g3 {0 _7 |

. _: v* A# \# p7 @4 W2 XI told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and) |5 R" y! R5 e2 s; S
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face 0 l% h! m1 A2 U  j: q& N/ v
the
- J% U* d( Q( C8 V  sresult of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me
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$ P; g8 b1 [+ h7 W+ c; AMy wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention ! M% U# W5 h) f$ L
was
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carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son
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behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a
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of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I 7 i& x& k# }/ V
walked4 ~  O; z. e. g
over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said 7 g6 i( l% |9 l" g9 H
softly,
/ V6 s, G7 `2 v6 }1 [; VLet us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat$ O- h3 y8 y3 r! N3 k7 z( a& q
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I 5 h. p# {: M' y) U
drove" w9 v4 M& A  B, P- p/ x
to the office.
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( }/ {/ ~* E* m2 n, _3 LOn the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
5 W: W. |! t) f; _3 p3 r. Fchest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. ; H0 W8 k- w+ _
I
& W) G  {% @+ R- O3 qrealized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a ' u" s& T: Q& ~
long
( w  Y% w  K7 g  U$ ytime. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles
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her face.* D5 M% @3 Q! d& @  T' T' Q3 D. ^$ L

( r9 j/ x4 h) i* m5 nOn the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
5 B1 p  k0 }+ \" o4 cdemolished. Be careful when you pass there.. m6 V" F" z+ B  j- W& f# b2 W
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On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
5 ^7 {$ q# Q( A( O% r1 y0 h* i# rstill. U  @0 G! I. }4 i6 ~
an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
1 \& r$ y" j/ U0 o" Svisualization of Dew became vague.# P* ?1 O0 e% f5 [: A/ M1 S
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On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as,
% Z( R. p6 h2 _" \  o& x+ Wwhere
( Z. g" c% e$ ^; i. B; d! H% _she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
' W8 F. L" b* K$ [6 w7 A. V% Hnodded.
* w' n/ L, J( y: u7 x. C8 L  yThe sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.3 Y) k8 F; e  z, _0 _" l

1 r: Z4 |: U6 e, pI felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
% S0 C8 A0 h( ]0 T8 a+ [stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She
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picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a
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( l  l5 ?% g* L& Tbut could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have8 ?" I6 Z2 i. U; O: Q. Y) _. h! k
grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she " Y+ v8 h: k% }1 P1 r
was
. l! K/ ~1 n! N7 Q3 mthinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger.
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of pain.. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.; D2 e2 H, l- a$ w

/ o% [4 l9 e7 a  w6 a; ?) wOur son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He
3 g2 s. f# f- x1 i: m" H# |said. To
' ?3 x  _& [6 V9 h6 yhim, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential ( T. d: ^9 D9 ]0 h  {
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his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I3 j0 ]8 m$ P& S
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last6 U0 |: T) m8 U( E
minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
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  H: [8 ]+ G5 u% U4 Sroom, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. . H, q3 _( H1 T9 E) a( d0 f2 A
I
; Q) P# F; U8 i' Iheld her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her
* s  J% \+ t8 F1 ?# o) K5 S# d2 mmuch
6 A3 i+ `  K" o5 }* n: Glighter weight made me sad.7 I- u. S" e8 q! t7 G' W  }

8 e( I( t: J: i  |On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.
0 ~* c6 U5 S, S2 ], }3 yOur  p5 W4 I6 A( X/ L1 f. o
son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in 0 r# Q: a! K! |4 i/ q$ l8 c
your- X8 d: @& g( `' {4 v
arms until we are old.
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) i% R/ T: M" @  d( ?6 [I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
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( ~! d% g+ z8 E6 S8 c, bI jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid 8 J: P1 [$ s; G; ^8 }0 ?
any
8 K7 y: Q- k# a1 w' qdelay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened   E4 p6 Z( I8 Z' R( H. Q* w& ~* @) Y
the
1 x7 I1 P, v; e+ h/ y/ i: Rdoor. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.0 F% j) E# p* r# g
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She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no5 f1 @" v* s* P1 B
fever.. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I , b. t$ Y) v& Y  W( u  i$ R
can- r9 e8 V6 B5 q/ [
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring * j$ H# l$ N0 `7 z1 g$ Z5 F
probably
& }# I( @' s/ v2 K+ Z3 n4 V/ ubecause she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we * d9 a* X9 O/ ]
didn't; C1 ?* t& e! ^
love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her + l* g" t) }: h1 w6 K% h
into the* p+ m, m/ M6 ]! G4 B) R- M
home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am + Q' Q5 [: y9 c) H0 i
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So I have to say sorry to you.
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Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then
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door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.- Q* A& w. o. x% c
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When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my ( g+ n5 `6 Q. W/ K* M4 ]. _
wife
4 G- I! U# G  z# Jwhich was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the
0 R; q) E3 p/ B5 ^" V; _0 S9 R0 q/ hcard. I, B! R" T% N. t# O/ y% H  d* ~6 S
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

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好多英文字。。。XD
- q' F! U; ?5 x$ {很懒惰去看。。
我の部落格》  有急事按它找我【

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原帖由 凌白麒 于 2006-10-29 07:09 AM 发表6 G7 f# g$ t1 {7 c2 j
好多英文字。。。XD
, H) D6 n* @7 J7 B1 ]/ X  d- I很懒惰去看。。
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# l+ s: U! G) k' p! |0 ^基本上是网上forward的mail来的....江的是一对夫妻要离婚了,妻子叫丈夫每天向新婚的时候抱着她走来走去酱,过后丈夫就愧疚啦....(我缩到超短了...)
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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女生花心啦!
" X7 d+ e& A0 c. x0 B' w竟然执著于两个男生之中- Y/ f, n6 x. B. k2 I6 Y4 H0 G
我已经放弃她了
No bOdY KnoW
wHo i ReaLLy aM
i nEveR FeLt tiS EmptY beFore
If i WaNNa nEEd sUmboDy coME aLong
whO wannA coMe FroM mE aNd keeP me STRONG

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不一定每个女生都那样的
试着忘了过去~
开始新的生活...

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the story is so sweet..: R8 A$ i- u  n0 Q8 {6 L$ U5 }
i mean the English one...1 C$ B6 s3 R& m7 u& C, C, J
so touching..


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and touchy

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# q+ G' \' y1 q愛情,並不只是因為需要有一個人疼,
. \7 z& V) e- u2 ?- X# [: H* [它也是一種成長,一種領悟。+ ?2 P) G5 `2 Z0 B( s8 ~7 I) o
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我喜欢这一句。爱情真的就是一种成长,一种领悟。
/ b; S3 m3 a1 ]9 F  g) V$ P每一次爱情结束,都让我觉得,我的视野更宽阔了。
5 s! W, u: }/ o5 D$ L7 L对人对爱情,我有更多包容的能力了。
我没有雪白的翅膀,所以我不是天使。

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得到与付出之间,我好像把界限模糊了....倾向于后者吗?但是,至少我是幸福的。
Those memories....I will never forget them...Never ever~~

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我知道。。我珍惜。。。
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, W: N' ]- x0 khttp://www.cmc-audio.com
' u, l4 W! S2 P4 i; l0 F4 j, j, A5 \http://www.word-time.com

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